I've been on my bike racing team for a very long time. Just a year out of school, I needed a sport to transition from four years of collegiate rowing. The guy responsible for getting me out there was Phil Sanders.
In the beginning, I was very strong but had a lot to learn about racing bikes. It seemed every week I broke something, be it another taco'd wheel, broken axle, whatever. Phil always helped me out. I just came to his house, he'd dig around and get me rolling again.
My constant trips to Phil's house soon led me to meet his wife, Wilma. Wilma was always the nicest person to talk to. Always had a smile to share. Always in good spirits. When I showed up at their door with something broken in my hand, she'd greet me with a pleasant smile and say "oh hello, Erik. What have you broken this time?"
On Friday, Wilma Sanders passed away after a long fight with cancer. Ironically, I was at a cancer relief charity banquet just last night, not aware of this. As the night went on, I started thinking about Wilma. I started thinking about how wonderful a person she was, and what an ass I was to not go and pay her a visit yet. There was always something I had to do, and I just kept procrastinating my visit.
I decided that night that I'd swing by on Monday with flowers to give her a smile. Turns out I'm too late. I'll miss Wilma; she was a special woman. I'm glad she's in a better place now. I wish I'd taken the time to see her again.
If you've ever been involved with the BBC or coach Phil Sanders, please send your warm wishes his way. I know there are a lot of you out there. I'll release info on the memorial service when I get it.